Suzy Welch has mentioned in her book “10-10-10“
Almost all romantic dilemmas come down to conflicts over the values of intimacy, commitment, and control.
Sure. Each relationship has unique dynamics. But when people get together, it’s usually because they have a shared, realistic understanding of how their relationship will function and how much support and independence they need as individuals. And when couples break up, it’s usually because their expectations and beliefs about their relationship are no longer aligned, or they never were in the first place! ~ Suzy Welch